What to do when he has a new girlfriend

The inevitable happens, people move on and get into new relationships. But I never expected it would hurt so much to see pictures of them. I always had the mindset that if he got together with someone else, I would be fine because it's his loss not to be with me. But nothing prepares you for the blow of it actually happening.

But it made me realize that he was just a liar. Refusing to admit there was another girl involved, promising that he wouldn't get into another relationship for a few years because he wanted to focus on his career. All bullshit.

Part of me wants to shout at him. Wants to tell him 'i knew it' but I refuse to give him the satisfaction of knowing that it affects me. Refuse to let him enjoy the tiniest bit of ego boost. I almost want to post pictures and let the whole world know the identity of this spoke of fellow. But I refuse to give him the slightest bit of fame from the 10 people who currently read this blog.

I can only say that I now truly see him for who he really is and wish him to marry that baby loving girl and lead a happy life. Please don't ever let me see your face again. I might be drastic. I will work hard and be better than anything you'll ever know.

3 tips for girls hurting after finding out he has moved on.

1. He has decided to be with someone else so stop waiting for him to come back.
Don't let him get the satisfaction of being wanted by more than one girl. You will just look pathetic. Being confident makes you attractive and will lead you to meet the next prince.

2. Enjoy your freedom from that guy. He is not worth your time, effort or thoughts. Do something nice off yourself like getting a manicure.

3. Call up a good friend. Preferably a her. Tell her your situation and make sure she stops you from doing anything foolish like call him.

I was so close to calling him up to scream or logging into his facebook account to see what's going on. But I know I don't want to sink so low.

For those ladies out there suffering, you are not alone. We are strong women and will get through this. The real prince is waiting.